.Inspiration.

Mom, How Was it to Grow Up in the 80s and 90s?

My son and I watched all Episodes and Seasons of Stranger Things, and he loved how these kids dressed up and lived a seemingly easier and carefree life. I mean, honestly, I think the 80s were, besides the shoulder-pad blazers and shirts, the best time.…

.Psycho Dercorating – What your Home reveals About You.

One of the books I’ve been reading this past month is Psycho-Decorating: What Homes Reveal About People by Margaret H. Harmon, Ph.D. Harmon was an American psychologist who wrote this book in 1977 analyzing the relationship between the personalities of people and their homes. It’s a little…

.Gyno Advice.

© Gemma can fly / Stocksy United My gynecologist suggested that, since I am approaching 45 (sigh!), it is time for a mammogram. This is what women your age have to go through, he added. He explained the procedure to me, and I left his…

.Why Can’t I Be as Smart As You.

If there’s one question I get all the time, it’s “Why can’t I be as smart as you?” This is a good question, for which I have a brilliant answer. I am extremely smart. Extremly. No kidding. So, so smart. Some people refer to this…

.Phone Addiction.

via The New Yorker I have spent the last several weeks without my phone tethered to my side, and I need to tell you, it has been glorious.  Not in a dramatic, life-altering, let’s-sell-everything-and move-to-a-cave-in-the-woods sort of way. Just quietly, steadily better.  I started small.…

.OverSpending or Spirited Away.

One morning, I woke up, and it was like a spell had been broken the way I looked around my house and saw how dull everything was, not because it was lacking but because of how full it was of stuff. Stuff I didn’t particularly love.…

.It is What it is.

“I’ve learned to value failed conversations, missed connections, confusions. What remains is what’s unsaid, what’s underneath. Understanding on another level of being.” – Anna Kamienska It is what it is. This statement could simply define our collective malaise. Lately, I have been catching this phrase uttered…

.Introduction to Free Time.

Sometimes, it is not about working all this overtime and cashing in. It is also important to have actual time off to do what makes you happy. For example, to spend time with yourself in that house or apartment you are paying for, because money…

.The Future of Dating.

Via The New Yorker 2020 Dating sites will continue to converge with social media. Filters guaranteeing you’re never exposed to opinions not shared by your friends will now ensure you never date anyone exposed to those opinions. Programs on your phone will decide for you…

.Things To Say To a Child.

via The New Yorker Some time ago, we watched the movie Eighth Grade about an eighth-grade girl struggling through those rough middle school years. (Have you seen it?) She lives with her dad, and one evening around the backyard fire pit, asks him the heartbreaking question, “Do I…