{"id":6891,"date":"2026-01-09T05:46:31","date_gmt":"2026-01-09T05:46:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sometimesraw.com\/?p=6891"},"modified":"2026-01-09T05:46:32","modified_gmt":"2026-01-09T05:46:32","slug":"after-the-confetti-intentions-for-2026","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sometimesraw.com\/?p=6891","title":{"rendered":".After the Confetti – Intentions for 2026."},"content":{"rendered":"
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via Bleubird<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Greetings, and Happy New Year.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I hope your break was restorative in whatever way you needed most. Heartwarming, soul-mending, surrounded by the people you like and love, or at the very least, a moment of stillness and quiet. We have one last day with our tree in full glory before I begin operation breakdown<\/em>, efficiently wiping all evidence of the holidays from our home. I\u2019m usually sad to see it go, but I feel ready. Ready for normalcy, for routine, and for the small pleasure of things moving back where they belong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I gave up on New Year\u2019s resolutions many years ago. The demand for sudden, total self-improvement on January 1st seems absurd and somewhat punitive, and the guilt that follows when a novella of change attempted all at once inevitably fails is never worth the effort. Instead, I keep a small set of intentions that I return to or may need reinforcement. Without further ado\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Showing up for myself<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m good at showing up for people I care about. I lend a hand or an ear or can offer advice when it\u2019s needed and do it even on days I\u2019d rather not. I take a certain pride in that.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Where I struggle is in extending the same discipline to myself. This year, I want to keep my own promises with equal seriousness. If I say I\u2019m going to do something, I do it. I take my own advice. I schedule the appointments, book the class, do the work, and show up for myself daily, without negotiation.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Four things<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

This is a practice I started in 2024 and one I\u2019ve come to rely on. It helps me get things done and, more importantly, show up for myself. Most days, it keeps me productive. On the harder ones, it keeps overwhelming from taking the wheel. My daily to-do list allows space for only four things. That\u2019s it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The first is nonnegotiable. Something that needs immediate attention, usually work-related or time-sensitive. It\u2019s something that keeps my family and me on track or a step closer to whatever comes next. It sits at the top of the list because it can\u2019t be ignored. It\u2019s one thing. Do it. Do it first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The second is the things I\u2019ve been avoiding. The doctor\u2019s appointment. Garden and house projects to come. A return that needs to be dropped off before the window closes. The phone call that will take an hour, when I feel like I don\u2019t have an hour to spend.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The third is mine. Call it self-care if you want. Time spent in the kitchen prepping meals to make the evenings run smoothly. Doing nothing but drinking a cup of tea and reading my book on the couch. The deep-tissue Thai massage my back\u2019s been begging for. Finishing my writing. Meeting a friend for a hike. Something chosen deliberately as a reminder that life is not only what needs doing.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Four: Planning and making 2026 a travel & explore year. Destinations like Paris, New York, and Japan are on the 100% list. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Four things. That\u2019s it. Everything else waits down below, patiently for another day and another list of four. More often than not, ticking those four boxes leaves me feeling accomplished enough to keep going. And sometimes, that\u2019s when the real work begins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A daily recap<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve always been able to keep a proper diary, journal, or this blog for years. In 2026, I want to take it easy. My last book, The<\/em> Average of all Possible Things<\/em>, was published in 2025, and I\u2019ve let go of whatever expectations I\u2019d attached to book writing for now. Whatever happens will happen, but I won\u2019t force anything. It is fine if it is just a small pause at the end of the day to take stock and write down a few words. No full sentences required.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are my entries so far:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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1\/1\/2026: Started the year laughing with friends. Hoping it ends the same. Bed at 2am, oops. fruit for breakfast. Watched\u00a0Pretty in Pink<\/em>\u00a0(1986). Not hungover since I celebrate sobriety for 3 years, but still napped in the afternoon. A lovely lazy day. HNY!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2\/1\/2026: Worked on my blog. Feeling motivated to push myself and make this year my bitch. Planned a couple of vacations for 2026. Thought about attending an Ashtanga Yoga Retreat<\/em>. Vitisted my bookstore and bought many books. Duh! Spent the afternoon\/evening reading. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3\/1\/2026: Woke up at 9 am. Had a nice breakfast and chat with my parents. Quiet morning with the X-mas tree and family. Indoor Playground with Joel, my sister and her kids. Joel yelling and then crying. Going to bed early.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4\/1\/2026: Laundry is done. Favorite sweatshirt is clean. Bought curtains online. Wrote for hours. Made lunch and dinner with mom. A good day.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

That is all for now, but I will be here sooner rather than later\u2014I made a promise to myself. \ud83d\ude09\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Happy New Year, and as always, thank you for reading! Don\u2019t take yourself and life too seriously. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

xx<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P.S. Please share a goal or intention of yours with the class. I love this shit!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

via Bleubird Greetings, and Happy New Year. I hope your break was restorative in whatever way you needed most. Heartwarming, soul-mending, surrounded by the people you like and love, or at the very least, a moment of stillness and quiet. We have one last day with our tree in full glory before I begin operation … <\/p>\n

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