{"id":5951,"date":"2023-01-26T05:49:47","date_gmt":"2023-01-26T05:49:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sometimesraw.com\/?p=5951"},"modified":"2023-01-26T05:49:50","modified_gmt":"2023-01-26T05:49:50","slug":"book-recommendation-childrens-books-on-grief","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sometimesraw.com\/?p=5951","title":{"rendered":".Book Recommendation: Children’s Books on Grief."},"content":{"rendered":"
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Last year, Joel, my nine-year-old son, asked me, \u201cWhere are my great-grandmas and great-grandpas?\u201d Both my grandmas and grandpas passed away within a very short time in the past two years. When Joel asked about my grandparents, my first impulse was to avoid the conversation since death felt like such a complicated, painful topic. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Before my grandparents\u2019 deaths, I\u2019d had a lot of exposure to death due to my work as a police officer but fortunately little exposure to loss within my family. As I grew older, I learned more about grief, which (slowly) has helped me live with my emotions. The process made me understand the importance of talking about grief, as it is an inevitable part of life for us all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, I didn\u2019t ignore Joel\u2019s question. I researched how to talk to kids about death and then explained to him that they all had died. Now I regularly talk to him about death and what grief feels like. One way we have continued the conversation is by reading children\u2019s books. Here are my five favorites:\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1.\u00a0The Dead Bird<\/a>\u00a0by Margaret Wise Brown (ages 4-7). \u201cThe bird was dead when the children found it,\u201d is the first line of the book. A group of friends decide to say goodbye by burying the bird in the woods, as well as singing \u201cthe way grown-up people did when someone died.\u201d This book gently introduces the concept of death and mourning to young kids. I have read this many, many times to Fianna. She usually just listens, but she recently asked \u201cIf our dog dies, can we have a celebration for her, too?\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2.\u00a0The Rabbit Listened<\/a>\u00a0by Cori Doerrfeld (ages 2-6). Taylor builds a tower of blocks but it gets knocked down. Different animals come to offer comfort, like the chicken who tries to get Taylor to talk or the hyena who laughs about it. But the rabbit listens as Taylor works through many emotions. This book illustrates how we can support loved ones by simply being there. Both my girls love this book.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3.\u00a0Why Do I Feel So Sad?<\/a>\u00a0by Tracy Lambert (ages 4-8). Written by a counsellor who specializes in loss, this book shares different reasons why we may feel grief \u2014 death, divorce, changing schools, losing friendships \u2014 and things kids can do to try to feel better, like moving their bodies, expressing themselves through music and talking to friends. In the end, Lambert also shares advice for parents, including how to talk to children about grief.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4.\u00a0King and the Dragonflies<\/a>\u00a0by Kacen Callender (ages 8-12). In this award-winning chapter book, 12-year-old King loses his older brother, Khalid \u2014 and, in his grief, believes Khalid has turned into a dragonfly. The book deals with race, sexuality, friendships and love. I was moved by the bravery the character displayed in learning to love himself, and I can\u2019t wait to read this book to my kids in a few years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5.\u00a0When You Trap a Tiger<\/a>\u00a0by Tae Keller (ages 9+). When Lily was a child, her\u00a0halmoni<\/em> (Korean for grandmother) told her folk stories about tigers. When Halmoni becomes ill, Lily, her mother, and her older sister move in to help care for her. Shortly after their move, a magical tiger from Halmoni\u2019s stories comes to life and Lily is forced to face the tiger while also grappling with the reality of Halmoni\u2019s failing health.\u00a0When You Trap a Tiger<\/em>\u00a0is a beautiful story of illness, family, and learning to find your way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What are your favorite books about grief? Do you have any grief experiences you hope will be written about?<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Last year, Joel, my nine-year-old son, asked me, \u201cWhere are my great-grandmas and great-grandpas?\u201d Both my grandmas and grandpas passed away within a very short time in the past two years. When Joel asked about my grandparents, my first impulse was to avoid the conversation since death felt like such a complicated, painful topic. Before … <\/p>\n

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